Is Your Life an EPIC? Or a Recycled Documentary?
Is Your Life an EPIC? Or a Recycled Documentary? For many of us, we have whimsical dreams of greatness. Flights of fancy, that are soon dismissed as daydreaming. And therein ...
Is Your Life an EPIC? Or a Recycled Documentary?
For many of us, we have whimsical dreams of greatness.
Flights of fancy, that are soon dismissed as daydreaming.
And therein lies the problem.
- We’re afraid people will laugh.
- Or tell us to “be practical”.
- Worse still. We’re afraid that we’ll fail. And everyone will know it.
And so, just like in high school,
We live to conform.
To fit in.
To be better than average, but not different from average.
This is no way to live (anymore).
- What if you actually wrote that list down?
- What if you actually made that list public?
- And people cheered on your aspirations?
- Encouraged you to go for it?
- What if you did one.. .just one item on the list? And was inspired enough to go after another?
Inspired by:
- Joel Runyon’s “IMPOSSIBLE List” (from The Blog of Impossible Things),
- Steve Kamb’s “Epic Quest” list (from Nerd Fitness),
- Chris Guillebeau’s “Places I’ve Been List” (from the Art of Non-Conformity blog), and
- Lachlan Cotter’s “The Awesome List” (from The Art of Audacity)
I’ve decided to publicize my “My Life as an EPIC Movie” list.
Here’s my list.
I’d love to see the beginnings of yours, in the comments below.
Play this while you read… it’ll get you in the right mindset for world conquest. LOL!
FILM:
- Make a significant creative contribution to an epic movie.
- Contribute to a Disney movie
- Contribute to a PIXAR movie
LANGUAGE:
- Speak Spanish fluently
- Speak French fluently
- Speak Mandarin Chinese fluently
TRAVEL:
- Visit every continent
- Travel for 1 year straight
RANDOM:
- Be part of a flash mob
- Become a world-class salsa dancer
- Start a worldwide movement. Then, start another.
- Be in the Olympics Opening Ceremonies (DONE!)
- Raise money for 5,000 orphans (DONE!)
FAMILY:
- Renew my marriage vows in a different country every year
- Create a public list of 100 things to teach my sons.
SPORT & FITNESS:
- Learn Tai-Chi or Ju-Jitsu
- Learn Parkour / Free-running
- Learn Capoeira
- Learn to surf
- Learn 10 soccer tricks that most soccer players cannot do (Around the world, etc.)
- Run a half marathon
- Run a marathon
- Do a triathlon
- Do 100 pushups a day for 100 days straight
- Run a 5k (DONE!)
- Run a 10k (DONE!)
- Do the 12-mile Urbanathlon obstacle course (DONE!)
SPEAKING:
- Speak at BlogWorld
- Speak at South X Southwest
- Speak at The World Domination Summit
- Speak at Yanik Silver’s Underground Online Seminar
- Speak at TED
WRITING:
- Write and Publish a bestselling book series for kids, that will inspire them to love reading and adventure. Dr Seuss meets Harry Potter meets CS Lewis
- Read at least 20 books every year
- Create an iconic superhero that lasts a generation
- Launch a new product every month for 12 months straight (Writing, audio, and video)
MINIMALISM:
- Own less than 600 things
Choice.
The thing is -
we get to choose.
You get to choose
And I get to choose.
Life doesn’t have to JUST HAPPEN to us.
If you think you’re not letting life just happen to you – stand back and really evaluate what you do day-after-day…
and how that bleeds into week-after-week…
and how that becomes month-after-month.
If you think you’re not letting life just happen to you -
Think about all the grand aspirations you had when you were a teenager
Or a young adult
Think about how, one by one, you’ve justified calling those things “impractical” and “unrealistic”.
Think about how your one life to live,
has become very much like a recycled documentary:
Informative but uninteresting
Volume on mute while you multi-task.
Clinical, and with as few surprises as possible.
Rote and routine, mind-numbingly mediocre.
This is no criticism.
This is the very life I’m trying to shake myself out of.
But it’s also the same truth for most of you reading this right now.
Let’s give each other a collective shake.
Let’s ditch the documentary lifestyle
And dare to dream with our feet.
What’s on your list?
You can leave a response, or trackback from your own site.


Bolaji O, known as "The Nocrastinator", is an expert in goal getting for digital entrepreneurs.


5 Responses to this article
These are some of the things on my list! Specifically, I have three things on my list that have been on there for awhile that I haven’t started, mostly because they are a lengthy commitment: write a book, learn spanish, get a PhD. I have work ahead of me!
BTW, love the page!
What’s up, Crystal!
Sounds like you have a nice list going.. I hope you share it somewhere!
What kind of book do you plan to write?
Any travel goals?
Bolaji.
WOW!! That’s quite a list Bolaji.
Ha ha!
Thanks, Sharon.
You’re not off the hook now… what are your fun things that you’d like to get done?
Bolaji.
Bolaji O´s last [type] ..Answering The Call
Best wishes on your upcoming product launch, Bolaji! I’m sure it will be something remarkable.
This post echoes a few themes that Corbett Barr has been discussing over on his Think Traffic Blog. Specifically, his new goal is, if I may quote, to “write epic shit” with each and every post. Or, in other words, not to waste time on mundane posts and goals, but to make each and every thing that we write, create, or do into something extraordinary. in other words, don’t just strive to do your best — strive to change the world. It’s a great goal.
As you said, we must remember the goals we made when we were younger people, and decide if we are honoring our past selves with the way we are living now. I have decided that I’m not, which is why I’m seeking to make changes in who I am and what I do.
Life’s too short to be lived with regrets pver the path you never took, because you were afraid of getting lost. It’s time to go exploring. And I’m leaving the map at home.
-j.